[quote author=Devils Advocate link=topic=30055.msg210784#msg210784 date=1264102173]
Art...did you get that info from ur Stabroek connection?
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not yet. I will email you. just return from a long break
[quote author=~Nargis~ link=topic=30055.msg210205#msg210205 date=1264001973]
to be honest I had no idea that Hindu weddings were to be preformed outdoors or rather must be preformed outdoors.
does it stipulate that in the books?
if it does, then how does everyone get married in the temple and then party it up at the hall?
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Some Hindus are so stupid I just cannot understand their stupid rituals with no values. what matter most in a hindu hindu wedding ceremony is the sense of duty that most Hindus have towards husband, wife, and family. These STUPID jACKASS talks too much about traditions. They should not assume things unless they honestly understand it.
[quote author=The Phenom link=topic=30055.msg210793#msg210793 date=1264103910]
Some Hindus are so stupid I just cannot understand their stupid rituals with no values. what matter most in a hindu hindu wedding ceremony is the sense of duty that most Hindus have towards husband, wife, and family. These STUPID jACKASS talks too much about traditions. They should not assume things unless they honestly understand it.
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well at least our weddings dont resemble a credit card application at a Home Depot...while our weddings are filled with pomp and circumstance all the stupid rituals mean something.
[quote author=Devils Advocate link=topic=30055.msg210795#msg210795 date=1264104139]
well at least our weddings dont resemble a credit card application at a Home Depot...while our weddings are filled with pomp and circumstance all the stupid rituals mean something.
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even me asking for a meaning about this so call rituals, don't understand after the hindu wedding, why you need a hall wedding? is that to show your family how much you like to show off...?
[quote author=The Phenom link=topic=30055.msg210797#msg210797 date=1264104316]
even me asking for a meaning about this so call rituals, don't understand after the hindu wedding, why you need a hall wedding? is that to show your family how much you like to show off...?
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no we dont do a hall wedding we do a reception and thats because we live in America and thats what is done a reception after a weding we accept western traditions we dont want to blow it up.
[quote author=Devils Advocate link=topic=30055.msg210802#msg210802 date=1264104680]
no we dont do a hall wedding we do a reception and thats because we live in America and thats what is done a reception after a weding we accept western traditions we dont want to blow it up.
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you are right, these north Americans hindu weddings are full or swings. We need to stop being worried about how much money will be spent at the wedding and how much your husband has or how much the wife has. We should pay attention to our family and our problems and not try to make them worst.
[quote author=Devils Advocate link=topic=30055.msg210838#msg210838 date=1264106364]
weddings are a celebration not a hindrance.
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I think you are right,A hindu wedding/ marriage ceremony is very beautiful and full of symbolism. the marriage becomes a blending of two families. lots of celebration there...