Domestic Violence: Why Men are Drama Queens

[size=12pt]Men often complain about women being drama queens,

Never acknowledging what drama queens they are themselves. And so, in the opinion of many if not most men, an ideal relationship is one where there is sex on demand, silence, and good food. But coming home to a great home cooked meal and getting good sex afterward and then again first thing in the morning, and never hearing a word spoken by the woman never satisfies a man....[/size]

[size=12pt]And neither will the woman's support satisfy him...

Money? Whether he's poor or has plenty of it....

He's still empty, distraught, and bored....

So there comes alcohol and drugs to fill the emptiness...

And that won't satisfy him either....

What's now left is conflict. Domestic violence....[/size]

[size=12pt]Outweighing the totality of everything else, the sex, drugs, food, silence, the woman's support and devotion, and always having his way, it's conflict and conflict alone that really gets him going and feeling something.[/size]

[size=12pt]He'll start it off mildly at first with heated arguments he starts, with the intended goal of it escalating to physical conflict. And finally, when he's pounding and stomping on his woman, he finally feels a sense of fulfillment. [/size]



[size=12pt]Yes... He always says that, but it will, because it's the only thing he can feel and actually enjoy doing.[/size]

[size=14pt]What does all of this mean? Would y'all like to know?

Would y'all like to know why men feel a need to batter a cooperative woman? [/size]

[color=rgb(17, 25, 28)]Men who abuse loved ones tend to blame other people, alcohol or circumstances for their violent outbursts.[/color]

[quote author=Prince link=topic=95158.msg611769#msg611769 date=1421528018]
[color=rgb(17, 25, 28)]Men who abuse loved ones tend to blame other people, alcohol or circumstances for their violent outbursts.[/color]
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True,

But the excuses men give aren't the real reason.

men who beat women hate their mother.

[quote author=Prince link=topic=95158.msg611776#msg611776 date=1421528435]
men who beat women hate their mother.
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You're warm....

But they don't really hate their mother, at least most don't.

It's that they hate feeling empty. Nothingness.

They hate the completion their mother didn't give them. And they can't quite put their finger on it. So here along comes a woman being devoted to him and his every wish and desire. Nothing she does for him matters, and he has to express the anguish he felt his whole life being incomplete and empty. And that expression comes out in battering his mate.

The bottom line is that he's unfit to be with anybody until he sorts out his inner turbulence. And truth be told, the woman who approaches a man with the intent to please is also unfit to be with anybody until she too sorts out her inner turbulence. Put those two together and domestic disturbance will happen because it's inevitable.

The biggest misconception about these guys is that they have "anger management" issues. They don't. They don't blow up at work or at the driver who cuts into their lane. Instead they have an overwhelming need to control their loved one—how she dresses, where she goes and whom she talks to. That's why, before they actually start using physical violence to stay in control, they are often constantly phoning and text messaging the object of their affections so that they know exactly what she is doing at all times.

Mighty Sparrow –

Calypso Lyrics

I discover a new philosophy
With to live with women happily
I have this new philosophy to
Live with women happily

Every now and the you have knock them dowm
They love you long and they love you strong
Black up they eye bruise up they knee
Then they will love you eternally

thats sick

[quote author=fineleg link=topic=95158.msg611792#msg611792 date=1421530663]
The biggest misconception about these guys is that they have "anger management" issues. They don't. They don't blow up at work or at the driver who cuts into their lane.
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You're absolutely correct. 

It's not about anger management issues.

But the mark he keeps missing daily is that control over his mate isn't satisfying him.

It's battering her that gets him off. It's what he can really feel and enjoy doing.

The fact that he need to dominate his mate only shows that he has no control over himself.

He's unfit to be in a relationship with anybody.

That's the bottom line. 

[quote author=ketchim link=topic=95158.msg611795#msg611795 date=1421530906]
Mighty Sparrow –

Calypso Lyrics

I discover a new philosophy
With to live with women happily
I have this new philosophy to
Live with women happily

Every now and the you have knock them dowm
They love you long and they love you strong
Black up they eye bruise up they knee
Then they will love you eternally
[/quote]

The point in those lyrics sounds like it's saying that a woman can only love a man who abuses her.