I do know that in Guyana this was the case. The women were contended with the situation at hand. Given that a day has 24 hours, the quesion is: How can a man be a good provider and at the same, have loads of time on his hands for the women, and is the woman's expectation to high?
Nargis, given your question....I would say, stick with the man. He is, if what you posit is true, therefore loyal, honest, and hard-working...and those qualities are quite admirable.