The Berbice Dharam Shala: A place filled with abandoned Parents

[quote author=ketchim link=topic=93005.msg591203#msg591203 date=1412022268]
Incest is another vicious act by fathers on daughters.

These are unforgiveable !

but pattycake , your punishment does NOT fit the crime !
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Punishment?

Seeing the picture for what it is is punishment?

If it's wrong to see the hand before your face, then how can a revolving pattern be changed? You can't change a condition until you can first see it. So how is seeing punishment?

[quote author=ketchim link=topic=93005.msg591206#msg591206 date=1412022416]
IF as a girl , I was raped by a step dad OR molested by my own dad

I can understand real anger BUT a wild cane swing and name calling ??

pattycake , you are way overboard and extremely punitive ...
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Okay, so your argument is the only wrong a parent can do is rape.

Compared to being punitive for a wild cane swing and being called a little bastard.

You punishment or the outlook you have on this experience is pretty severe !

you guys go ahead and forgive the devil

[quote author=ketchim link=topic=93005.msg591213#msg591213 date=1412023111]
Compared to being punitive for a wild cane swing and being called a little bastard.

You punishment or the outlook you have on this experience is pretty severe !
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I don't know why you keep calling me punitive.  ::LOL::

What does vision have to do with punishment?

Reading what you wrote teems with bitterness.

Read Desiderata I posted above for Vision : the universe is unfolding as it should !

[quote author=ketchim link=topic=93005.msg591219#msg591219 date=1412023976]
Reading what you wrote teems with bitterness.

Read Desiderata I posted above for Vision : the universe is unfolding as it should !
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Bitterness isn't punishment. Bitterness and punishment are two different things.

And I'm not bitter. i'm just aware.

I cannot honor bad parents, and that's all there is to that.

Bitterness will influence your outlook on Life.

and you will punish self by being bitter !

you did mention cause and effect.

You really dont need to occupy head space with those memories and experiences.

[quote author=pattycake link=topic=93005.msg591205#msg591205 date=1412022369]
The universe itself issues the payouts.

There's another term for it.

It's called cause and effect.
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ahh yes, you are correct.  but who determines the cause and deals out the 'effects"?  we, the imperfect humans or god/mother nature/universe?

[quote author=pattycake link=topic=93005.msg591221#msg591221 date=1412024251]
I cannot honor bad parents, and that's all there is to that.
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No it is not !