see....no one reads your essays
why? cause we are all at work and really have the time
and I for one don't post on the w/e
so...bottome line is.....no one reads your essays
but....if you enjoy writing them to get them off your mind....by all means go ahead and just enjoy the forum man.
they say women are the emotional ones.....but all I have seen on this forum are the men fighting :o