Paula ROctober 22, 2011 at 12:54 pm 2When I first started dating my boyfriend, I was seeing 3 other guys as well. I honestly didn’t find it THAT hard to keep everything straight, because everything was pretty new with all of them. It wasn’t really something I worried too much about, because I didn’t feel that the level of seriousness was high enough with any of them. One was a musician who travelled a lot, so we didn’t see each other that often, another lived in the next province (not far, but far enough) and another was a fellow student at my University. It wasn’t progressing very quickly with any of them, mostly due to distance and stuff, and I eventually narrowed it down to two – the student and my boyfriend. Things went pretty well with both of them, but I didn’t present it as anything too serious to either of them, which gave me a space to work in if I decided to date either of them seriously. The more time I spent with both of them, the more I felt myself gravitating towards the guy I’m currently dating, and we eventually had a chat about it and decided to date exclusively. When I chatted with the other fellow about it, I politely let him know that I was getting serious with someone else and that I hoped everything would be okay, and it was. In fact, we’re still close friends and I give him girl advice, we go to the gym together and hang out a lot.
Soo…. long story short… It’s not that hard to manage dating multiple people at once. But my advice is to never represent yourself as getting serious with them both at the same time, or there will be a lot of unnecessarily hurt feelings. And do try to eventually make a choice! [img alt=
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Soo…. long story short… It’s not that hard to manage dating multiple people at once. But my advice is to never represent yourself as getting serious with them both at the same time, or there will be a lot of unnecessarily hurt feelings. And do try to eventually make a choice! [img alt=
]http://www.davidwygant.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif[/img]
