PAY the Dowry !

[quote author=pattycake link=topic=92583.msg587878#msg587878 date=1410641435]
They have to stop living as cattle. That is, if they really want to live humanely.

It's as simple as that.
[/quote]  How so  ? . How is the dowry system analogous to living like cattle?

cattle kinda docile : moo !

[quote author=ketchim link=topic=92583.msg587885#msg587885 date=1410642415]
cattle kinda docile : moo !
[/quote] Women are not docile, well at least not the ones  in my circles

damn right Kwami !!: dem woman by me does throw Belna, Shoe , Tawa :

bruk up furniture and dem tings .....Refuse to cook  et cetera

dunno what pattycake talking about : and these are Indian !

[quote author=ketchim link=topic=92583.msg587893#msg587893 date=1410643750]
damn right Kwami !!: dem woman by me does throw Belna, Shoe , Tawa :

bruk up furniture and dem tings .....Refuse to cook  et cetera

dunno what pattycake talking about : and these are Indian !



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That's why you get a dowry.... payment up front for the punishment you will be receiving  ::LOL::

[quote author=Kwami link=topic=92583.msg587880#msg587880 date=1410641704]
  How so  ? . How is the dowry system analogous to living like cattle?
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Wives are purchased, and in exchange for cattle animals. Which is how it is in Africa. I saw a documentary where an African man said: "A woman and a cow are equal." And he said that because he just bought himself a bride in exchange for one of his cows. And then they have the same thing to deal with from cattle raiders from the north who come in and steal all of a town's cattle and children and kill off the adults, and those stolen children are raised as slaves, and later sent back to their village to cattle raid, killing off the adults and stealing children. When we live by the sword we die by the sword, so if we live as cattle then we'll die as cattle.

[quote author=Goog Lee link=topic=92583.msg588018#msg588018 date=1410712164]

That's why you get a dowry.... payment up front for the punishment you will be receiving  ::LOL::
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So a woman not cooking and changing your diapers is punishment?

It may be punishment for you for her not to do it, but it's punishment for her to do it. You should be able to cook and clean behind yourself. Being your slave is punishment.

[quote author=ketchim link=topic=92583.msg587893#msg587893 date=1410643750]
damn right Kwami !!: dem woman by me does throw Belna, Shoe , Tawa :

bruk up furniture and dem tings .....Refuse to cook  et cetera

dunno what pattycake talking about : and these are Indian !
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If the women are raising hell, that's excellent. It's better for them to break up furniture and throw shoes than to kiss your butt.

[quote author=pattycake link=topic=92583.msg588075#msg588075 date=1410725442]
So a woman not cooking and changing your diapers is punishment?

It may be punishment for you for her not to do it, but it's punishment for her to do it. You should be able to cook and clean behind yourself. Being your slave is punishment.
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relax patta wadda, no woman is my slave.  equal partnership!  :-\