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Re: The Berbice Dharam Shala: A place filled with abandoned Parents - pattycake - 09-29-2014
[quote author=ketchim link=topic=93005.msg591203#msg591203 date=1412022268]
Incest is another vicious act by fathers on daughters.
These are unforgiveable !
but pattycake , your punishment does NOT fit the crime !
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Punishment?
Seeing the picture for what it is is punishment?
If it's wrong to see the hand before your face, then how can a revolving pattern be changed? You can't change a condition until you can first see it. So how is seeing punishment?
Re: The Berbice Dharam Shala: A place filled with abandoned Parents - pattycake - 09-29-2014
[quote author=ketchim link=topic=93005.msg591206#msg591206 date=1412022416]
IF as a girl , I was raped by a step dad OR molested by my own dad
I can understand real anger BUT a wild cane swing and name calling ??
pattycake , you are way overboard and extremely punitive ...
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Okay, so your argument is the only wrong a parent can do is rape.
Re: The Berbice Dharam Shala: A place filled with abandoned Parents - ketchim - 09-29-2014
Compared to being punitive for a wild cane swing and being called a little bastard.
You punishment or the outlook you have on this experience is pretty severe !
Re: The Berbice Dharam Shala: A place filled with abandoned Parents - chairman - 09-29-2014
you guys go ahead and forgive the devil
Re: The Berbice Dharam Shala: A place filled with abandoned Parents - pattycake - 09-29-2014
[quote author=ketchim link=topic=93005.msg591213#msg591213 date=1412023111]
Compared to being punitive for a wild cane swing and being called a little bastard.
You punishment or the outlook you have on this experience is pretty severe !
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I don't know why you keep calling me punitive. ::LOL::
What does vision have to do with punishment?
Re: The Berbice Dharam Shala: A place filled with abandoned Parents - ketchim - 09-29-2014
Reading what you wrote teems with bitterness.
Read Desiderata I posted above for Vision : the universe is unfolding as it should !
Re: The Berbice Dharam Shala: A place filled with abandoned Parents - pattycake - 09-29-2014
[quote author=ketchim link=topic=93005.msg591219#msg591219 date=1412023976]
Reading what you wrote teems with bitterness.
Read Desiderata I posted above for Vision : the universe is unfolding as it should !
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Bitterness isn't punishment. Bitterness and punishment are two different things.
And I'm not bitter. i'm just aware.
I cannot honor bad parents, and that's all there is to that.
Re: The Berbice Dharam Shala: A place filled with abandoned Parents - ketchim - 09-29-2014
Bitterness will influence your outlook on Life.
and you will punish self by being bitter !
you did mention cause and effect.
You really dont need to occupy head space with those memories and experiences.
Re: The Berbice Dharam Shala: A place filled with abandoned Parents - Googley - 09-29-2014
[quote author=pattycake link=topic=93005.msg591205#msg591205 date=1412022369]
The universe itself issues the payouts.
There's another term for it.
It's called cause and effect.
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ahh yes, you are correct. but who determines the cause and deals out the 'effects"? we, the imperfect humans or god/mother nature/universe?
Re: The Berbice Dharam Shala: A place filled with abandoned Parents - ketchim - 09-29-2014
[quote author=pattycake link=topic=93005.msg591221#msg591221 date=1412024251]
I cannot honor bad parents, and that's all there is to that.
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No it is not !