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Re: how would you deal with bullyin? - wulfman - 11-14-2014
Put em in a hexagon. Winner gets a pacifier. LMAO.
Seriously though if it is toddlers then the bully should be scolded and if he/she keeps doing it then maybe a light spanking. One way or another you have to get it across to them that what they are doing is WRONG.
Re: how would you deal with bullyin? - pattycake - 11-15-2014
[quote author=wulfman link=topic=93981.msg599565#msg599565 date=1416019628]
Put em in a hexagon. Winner gets a pacifier. LMAO.
Seriously though if it is toddlers then the bully should be scolded and if he/she keeps doing it then maybe a light spanking. One way or another you have to get it across to them that what they are doing is WRONG.
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A toddler isn't developed enough to understand being scolded for bullying, and the toddler will perceive the scolding itself as being bullied because scolding isn't teaching. The solution is to teach children self defense. Children can sort out their own problems. A bully will leave a kid alone who fights back and hurts them. And it will help them to understand bullying as wrong and to stop doing it period.
Re: how would you deal with bullyin? - ketchim - 11-15-2014
Spare the Rod and Spoil the Child
http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/british/spare-the-rod-and-spoil-the-child
if you do not punish a child when it does something wrong, it will not learn what is right
Re: how would you deal with bullyin? - bigbrain50 - 11-15-2014
Bullying is a very real problem. For too many of our precious children.We must step up to teach our children the skills they need to not be the bullied, the bully, or the bystander. Teaching our children about feelings, empathy, and good communication skills will help prevent bullying. Ask your schools to teach feelings, empathy, and communication as well.
In the case of a four year olds, I guess you could use picture books, there are a few you could use :
Queen Bees and Wannabes
Little Girls Can Be Mean
The Bully, The Bullied, and the Bystander
really good ones
Queen Bees and Wannabes
Re: how would you deal with bullyin? - pattycake - 11-15-2014
[quote author=ketchim link=topic=93981.msg599648#msg599648 date=1416072957]
Spare the Rod and Spoil the Child
http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/british/spare-the-rod-and-spoil-the-child
if you do not punish a child when it does something wrong, it will not learn what is right
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Uh huh...
Punish your child, f*** them up with a stick, and when your ass gets busted and put on trial, the first thing you'll say is: "I didn't know." ::LOL::
You yourself don't want to be punished for anything you do wrong. ::LOL::
So what did you learn getting jacked up with a stick when you were a child?
How to take out your frustrations on your children?
First off,
That rod of correction s*** in the Bible traces to ancient Sumer and how it was in Sumerian times. They f***ed up little Sumerian boys in school everyday with a cane. And what has that done for black history? It led to severe idolatry in educated black men establishing themselves as gods and slavery to the gods as an institution, an Exodus out of Sumer, selective breeding on Patmos, black enslavement to whites, and free blacks today doing nothing with their freedom but neglecting themselves and their children and blaming it on the white man.
Yes yes.... Continue fucking your kid up in punishment. ::LOL::
That's the solution. ::LOL::
Re: how would you deal with bullyin? - Captain - 11-16-2014
If dem Tass was in bobice dem would find out
2 back hand slap
Re: how would you deal with bullyin? - Artemisback - 11-17-2014
::LOL:: ::LOL:: ::LOL::
Re: how would you deal with bullyin? - Artemisback - 11-17-2014
tass?
Re: how would you deal with bullyin? - Artemisback - 11-17-2014
[quote author=ketchim link=topic=93981.msg599648#msg599648 date=1416072957]
Spare the Rod and Spoil the Child
http://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/british/spare-the-rod-and-spoil-the-child
if you do not punish a child when it does something wrong, it will not learn what is right
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i like the therapist language , referring a child as it.
Re: how would you deal with bullyin? - Artemisback - 11-17-2014
btw ketchim, I steal the above and post it as question n my facebook page.
::LOL::