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Re: Are Men Women's Nurturer? - TRINIDADDY - 11-01-2014
"It's silly to bulls*** a simple question with no opinion when you don't have to say anything at all."
I'm not being silly. My point is that men and women are no longer bound to any traditional gender roles. Everything goes. People can do and be what they want.
Ironically, even evolution is turning women more "masculine". Their craniofacial structures are changing, becoming more "masculine", their vocal chords are changing and natural selection is slowly weeding out traditional "feminine" body traits.
The future is fluid, androgynous and all behaviour will slowly be normalized.
If we're talking specifically about "nurturing", then yes, from a moral perspective, men and women should nurture everyone and everything.
Unless you ascribe condescending, "paternalistic" overtones to the word "nurturing".
Re: Are Men Women's Nurturer? - Kwami - 11-01-2014
[quote author=pattycake link=topic=93709.msg596988#msg596988 date=1414714586]
A lot of women feel that a man is supposed to nurture and protect her.
Do anybody agree with this?
I don't.
I believe that a man should have his woman's back if he's really her man, but nurture her?
No.
[/quote] I agree, men should nurture women not torture them .
You wouldn't know since you are a man pretendin to be a woman
Re: Are Men Women's Nurturer? - pattycake - 11-03-2014
[quote author=Allison link=topic=93709.msg597208#msg597208 date=1414848255]
I still think the old fashion way.
Men are suppose to give Protection, and Provision!
Protecting me from harm, and giving me provision is [glow=red,2,300]Nurturing[/glow] me!
If I am protected from all outside harm then I could concentrate on other issues. If I am provided with adequate housing and food then I can concentrate on making that home comfortable for my man and our children. If he is somewhat pleasant, and willingly talks a little, and above all listens or pretends to listen to me then all would go better for him. If he returns home daily on time like he is suppose to do then I would not become frustrated enough to shout or scream or yell at him. In other words he would make me happy.
Those are ways a man could be nurturing!
[/quote]
But how can a man possibly protect you from all outside harm when no one is protected from all outside harm?
You yourself have to offer yourself some protection. It's unreasonable to lay all of that on your man.
You as a woman have a much greater job than to just make your home comfortable.
You yourself are supposed to protect.
The woman is the primary protector and the man is the secondary protector.
You can't just assign all protection to the man.
Re: Are Men Women's Nurturer? - pattycake - 11-03-2014
[quote author=TRINIDADDY link=topic=93709.msg597232#msg597232 date=1414853235]
"It's silly to bulls*** a simple question with no opinion when you don't have to say anything at all."
I'm not being silly. My point is that men and women are no longer bound to any traditional gender roles. Everything goes. People can do and be what they want.
Ironically, even evolution is turning women more "masculine". Their craniofacial structures are changing, becoming more "masculine", their vocal chords are changing and natural selection is slowly weeding out traditional "feminine" body traits.
The future is fluid, androgynous and all behaviour will slowly be normalized.
If we're talking specifically about "nurturing", then yes, from a moral perspective, men and women should nurture everyone and everything.
Unless you ascribe condescending, "paternalistic" overtones to the word "nurturing".
[/quote]
Yeah yeah. Right...
You agree that it's not a man's job to nurture a woman. ::LOL::
Re: Are Men Women's Nurturer? - pattycake - 11-03-2014
[quote author=Kwami link=topic=93709.msg597277#msg597277 date=1414869814]
I agree, men should nurture women not torture them .
You wouldn't know since you are a man pretendin to be a woman
[/quote]
Men are supposed to nurture women? Oh really?
What is nurturing a woman?
Re: Are Men Women's Nurturer? - chairman - 11-03-2014
what would a woman be without a man?
Re: Are Men Women's Nurturer? - pattycake - 11-03-2014
[quote author=The Chairman link=topic=93709.msg597605#msg597605 date=1415050835]
what would a woman be without a man?
[/quote]
You're changing the subject chairman. ::LOL::
But since you asked, what would a man be without a woman?
Re: Are Men Women's Nurturer? - chairman - 11-03-2014
its obvious a man cant do without a woman. they hustle woman everyday. all day
Re: Are Men Women's Nurturer? - pattycake - 11-03-2014
[quote author=The Chairman link=topic=93709.msg597612#msg597612 date=1415051213]
its obvious a man cant do without a woman. they hustle woman everyday. all day
[/quote]
Natural law stipulates that the male needs the female more than the female needs the male, which is why everywhere in nature the male has to earn the female. It's only in the human species where this is backwards and most humans don't follow the law but live in opposition to it. So the man cannot nurture a woman because he is not designed and built for that. The idea of the man nurturing the woman is nothing but a figment of the human imagination. The woman provides comfort and the man provides nurturing?
It's lala land. ::LOL::
And simply doesn't exist in nature. ::LOL::
Re: Are Men Women's Nurturer? - chairman - 11-03-2014
watch the video i posted in another thread